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I'm starting a new top-level regarding trigger happy Iceman meets wine mom in Minneapolis because, rather than debating the videos, I'd like to focus more on a compare and contrast to get a true culture war angle. People have made an analogy to the woman who died on Jan 6th but I don't think it lands strongly enough. Permit me to cut closer to the bone, friends.
The only fatality on Jan 6th was an unarmed woman being shot by a federal agent[1] because she was opposing what she considered an illegitimate government action. Liberals tearlessly argued this is what happens when you Fuck Around while conservatives argued she was righteously Resisting (TM).
Today the players are the same but the jerseys are flipped. Liberals cry with so, so many tears of empathy for the dead woman in the car while conservatives argue they were obstructing a legitimate state function and put the officer in danger and this is what happens when you Fuck Around.
In broad strokes it's clear neither side cares about democracy or rule of law per se. Conservative faith in rule of law evaporates when it says no to Trump and liberal empathy for the scrappy civil disobedients dries up when it's a Chud. Both sides are happy with mob violence when it's their side doing it and cry tyranny whenever they Find Out.
The individual instances can seem superficially similar but the overall context couldn't be more different. For instance you can make the argument that both were killed by the Dems making it seem like all kinds of unethical and dangerous protesting is safe, appropriate, and at times even mandatory.
This is simply not true but the treatment of leftist protestors doing dangerous things, rioting, and even directly harming people...all makes the case that doing crazy shit is reasonable and appropriate.
In this frame they both were killed by insane leftist protesting norms, but one was killed by accepting lies from her own side, and the other was killed by accepting lies told by the other side.
That's pretty different.
This is also why I have no tolerance for complaints about January 6th - the left burned down billions of dollars in property and everyone was told that was fine. "Oh not for you, just for us" is not a compelling counterargument. If you don't like scary protests don't support scary protests.
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