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I'm just so viscerally disgusted by this method of "shrieking women" protest, blowing whistles nonstop, trying to be as annoying as possible that I can't even be objective about this. This seems like an obvious failure of this type of protest strategy, anything that's annoying to ICE agents will also be annoying to the audience. I just can't bring myself to sympathize with people who are being maximally annoying, it's like a bully kid doing the whole "I'm not touching you" thing. This protest method may be effective in generating these snapshot moments of violent reprisal that work on some people, but for me it has the exact opposite effect. I watch about five seconds of one of these videos and have decided quite firmly that I hate the protestors. Additionally the way women react to violence just disgusts me, you see this in body cam footage from ghetto shootings too. The moment something happens dozens of fat women materialize somehow and just start shrieking their heads off. Maybe it has some sort of evolutionary purpose, like summoning aid or something, but god, whatever evolutionary impulse is totally absent in me.
https://time.com/archive/6877571/northern-ireland-the-women-and-the-gunmen/
Not the same thing obviously but the same vein of the evolutionary purpose of raising a din so that “someone please look into fixing this”. I think you are primed to think of them as your enemies so they become annoying to you. I’m not saying you are wrong, I think most straight men like women that are “chill” and “cool”. The people who are on the side of the women probably think in total contrast to you. They probably think the whistling is effective and smart (in terms of low risk high rewards). Is it annoying for the supporters? Yeah, probably, but look at soccer fans in Europe (or World Cup 2010 in South Africa) to see how many decibels people are willing to put up with for their team.
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"It's a tense, dangerous situation, where someone may have just been killed. You know what would help? Me screaming into a man's ear hysterically!"
In an old movie, a man slapping a woman for being emotional comes off as sexist, but perhaps it's just received knowledge from thousands of years of women screaming their heads off and making things worse. Perhaps they were onto something.
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