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I think that Stormy Daniels (and his wives) do put to rest any claim that Trump is an exclusive pedophile.
However, knowing one of his sexual tastes does not rule out the possibility of him having additional sexual tastes. If you know that someone restaurant critic is famous for his love of Italian seafood, do you conclude that he will never eat an Argentinian steak, but have seafood for three meals a day?
From an evo-psych PoV, the obviously advantageous path for a man is to fuck any fertile-looking woman his society lets him fuck. Being exclusively into teens or MILFs would really limit reproductive success, especially in monogamous societies where your marriage partner will likely start as a teen and age into a more mature woman later on.
We know that Trump was big time into running Miss contests (and allegedly walking into their dressing room). To my knowledge, he did not run any Mister contests, so it seems plausible to conclude that sexual attraction was one of the things which got him into that. Now, I am very much not into these contests, but it appears to me (starting from the label, a 'Miss' is a woman on the marriage market) that they are rather about young, nubile women than mothers with big breasts. A 16yo selected to appeal to Trump would be much closer to a Miss winner than Stormy Daniels is.
If the allegations were that he had sucked off underage boys, then I would be with you in finding that implausible, bisexuality seems to be relatively rare and there is no indication that Trump likes dicks.
And of course, there is Trump's creepy birthday message to Epstein. It could be about the both of them enjoying hunting federally protected birds on his island, but somehow I doubt it is.
I would at least expect it did cover "decides he'll try steak for a change is not the same as decides he'll try raw roadkill".
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Has this been your experience with any other public cheater, that they espouse "variety is the spice of life?" Best I can tell, most everyone has a "type," and they stick to it. The most famous that comes to mind is Tiger Woods, who slept with a large number of women who all vaguely looked like his wife (I was a big fan of the article from a journalist who was not so much upset by the fact that Tiger Woods was a philanderer, but that he did not "sample all the varieties of the world")
Yeah, that's my general impression as well. I think that given the choice between (1) a 25-year old beauty queen; and (2) a cute 15 year old, Epstein would have taken the second choice and Trump the first.
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We're talking about the guy who's famous for still eating McDonalds all the time even though he's a billionaire TV star WWE HoFer president, right? He does not strike me as a guy starving for novelty or transgression.
Most Miss America winners during Trump's life have been 20+, which seems like a reasonable gauge. If that's what we're using as a proxy score, Trump likes 'em near or past college graduation. And frankly, the difference between 16 and 21 is much bigger than 21 to 26, and that would have been more extreme in decades past.
Trump's pageant was Miss USA, where the winners skew slightly younger, but also haven't been under 20 for a long time. But the reason why Donald Trump, pageant baron, stinks of kiddie-fiddling is that he also owned Miss Teen USA, and bragged about being able to hang out in the girls' changing room because he owned the pageant. A quick look at Miss Teen USA winners shows that there is no paedophilia here - the girls look like the physiologically mature women they are. But it isn't and shouldn't be socially acceptable.
Outside Red America, both feminists and social conservatives think that teen pageants shouldn't be socially acceptable at all, but that boat sailed a long time ago.
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Not helped by the fact that age of consent laws vary from country to country, and that there are exceptions where what would be "statutory rape" gets relieved by 'Romeo and Juliet' laws so you don't label a 17 year old who had sex with his 16 year old girlfriend as a sex offender. Also that despite legal ages of consent, the de facto acknowledgement seems to be "teenagers are going to have sex before that age, so teach them about contraception, abortion, and sexual health".
In some US states, it would be legal (if unseemly) for Trump to have sex with a 16 year old.
Sure, as long as he is not paying for the sex, and has no reason to believe that anyone else is paying her to have sex, either. Epstein's Island is Florida IIRC, and there AoC seems to be 18, so the excuse "I thought Jeff had just invited some teens who just liked to fuck older guys" will not fly.
AoC is the age at which you can have sex with anyone without your consent being considered violated. If multiple people of a common age have consensual sex, most legislatures recognize that this is not a problem which needs fixing, no matter if they are 11, 15, 17 or 99. Locking up two 11yo's for statuary rape of each other hardly seems very worthwhile.
If two eleven year olds are having sex it very damn much is a problem. Not a locking them up problem, but "oh shit the dumb kids are gonna contract so many STIs and run the risk of getting pregnant because physically they can get knocked up".
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