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Okay, now tell me why you can't (or wouldn't) make all these same arguments about a 10-year-old who has hit puberty?
I don't find this argument convincing. Your entire premise is that 15 is arbitrary and most 15-year-olds (according to you) are physically and mentally mature enough while most 10-year-olds are not. This might be true. But it's clearly a sliding scale: some (very tiny) number of 10-year-olds probably are physically and mentally mature enough, while there are a not-insignificant number of 15-year-olds who definitely are not.
Every age-of-consent argument boils down to this: yes, the number we choose is somewhat arbitrary. You're saying 18 is too old but 14 is too young. You may or may not be correct, but there will always be someone saying "Aktually most 14-year-olds nowadays..."
While I wouldn't lose sleep over lowering the AOC to 15, nor am I losing sleep over it being 18. And I would pretty seriously side-eye a grown man with a 15-year-old girlfriend, however full of hip and round of breast she might be.
(Also, I think you probably are our previous ebophile poster.)
I'm really struggling to envision how this would work in practice. A 20-year-old man has consensual sex with a 15-year-old girl, but it's okay because "she seemed really mature for her age"?
How would this synergise (or not) with other rights only afforded to people who have reached the age of majority? 15-year-olds can vote, drink alcohol, smoke, buy guns etc. provided they can demonstrate that they're unusually mature for their age? Can you imagine the administrative overhead involved in having a public body vet the emotional maturity of every 15-, 16- and 17-year-old in the land on a case-by-case basis?
But somehow I suspect you aren't half as emotionally invested in extending the franchise to "emotionally mature" 15-year-olds as you are in decriminalising grown men having sex with minors.
Libertarian discussion of this idea
So, 5 years old who leaves home to move in with nice uncle who promises him as much chocolate as he wants to eat, is adult citizen with full rights, while 50 years old who is living with mom is still legally a baby?
Very cool. Misesistan is going to be interesting place. Perhaps not to live in, but certainly to watch from the other side of the world.
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