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PaperclipPerfector  14hr ago (text post)   153 thread views

Wellness Wednesday for March 11, 2026

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New year's resolutions check-in:

  • Went to the gym three times last week and again last night, planning to go again this evening. After three sets of deadlifts at 1.8x my bodyweight, my lower back was very stiff for the rest of the week. This has been a recurrent issue and there's obviously something fundamentally wrong with my deadlift form, so my plan now is to go down to a much lower weight so I can correct it, then steadily work my way back up. Can deadlift 1.8x my bodyweight for 3 reps, squat 1x for 8 reps and bench press .85x for 6 reps.
  • Have not consumed any pornography since waking up on January 1st.
  • Have completed 9/11 modules in the SQL course. Planning to do the tenth this evening.

How goes it, @thejdizzler and @birb_cromble? (Incidentally if any of you no longer want to be pinged every week, just say so.)

Spending this year is $1,357.12 less than this time last year.

Gas prices going up $0.50 overnight was a real kick in the balls, but I am doing my best. I am hoping to keep things low enough this month that I can handle my upcoming dental entirely through cash flow. It'll be cutting it close, but it's nice to have a goal.

Gas prices going up $0.50 overnight was a real kick in the balls, but I am doing my best.

A month ago (because I'm a nerd and track it), I paid $1.20/gal less than I paid today, and I only got today's half-tank because otherwise I'll be paying even more in a week. One of those days where I think about the headline from this Onion article.

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