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I think plastic surgery is really just for the hideous and malformed, or those suffering from accidents and the procedure is a return to baseline. If your personality and swagger can't overcome minor imperfections then I doubt any procedure will improve your outcomes. As if anyone you want to marry won't see photos of you from more than three years ago. The point of attractiveness is signal your awesome genes. You getting getting plastic surgery is admitting you seriously doubt you have awesome genes. Why would anyone who understands genetics choose to reproduce with someone who thinks their genes are trash? Isn't there a Chinese movie where both the parents have cosmetic plastic surgery and have really ugly kids?
It would be very funny for me to turn around and complain that I am hideous and malformed, but I'm not that committed to the bit.
Look dude, to be honest, your disapproval doesn't matter to me. That is not meant as an insult, it's a fact. I'm not asking anyone else to get plastic surgery, if you don't like it, don't get it done.
I have a pretty solid personality, even if I wish I was more extroverted. I am not just my genes, and you're talking to a man who is perfectly happy to make minor changes to the genome of his children if the gene engineering tools are available. I don't want them to have myopia or ADHD, and if there's 200 SNPs that predispose me to have the facial features I do, I won't miss them. My brother, after all, shares most of the same genes, and he's far more handsome. Shame that he's gay and that I have to hold up the bloodline for now.
Gene engineering makes this moot, or will make it moot. Most of my genes aren't trash. Most of me isn't trash. You don't see someone taking out a garbage bag and declare that this proves the house should be condemned. Plus, if you have uggo kids, well, the world has room for ugly people. They can get plastic surgery too.
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