The Wednesday Wellness threads are meant to encourage users to ask for and provide advice and motivation to improve their lives. It isn't intended as a 'containment thread' and any content which could go here could instead be posted in its own thread. You could post:
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Requests for advice and / or encouragement. On basically any topic and for any scale of problem.
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Updates to let us know how you are doing. This provides valuable feedback on past advice / encouragement and will hopefully make people feel a little more motivated to follow through. If you want to be reminded to post your update, see the post titled 'update reminders', below.
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Advice. This can be in response to a request for advice or just something that you think could be generally useful for many people here.
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Encouragement. Probably best directed at specific users, but if you feel like just encouraging people in general I don't think anyone is going to object. I don't think I really need to say this, but just to be clear; encouragement should have a generally positive tone and not shame people (if people feel that shame might be an effective tool for motivating people, please discuss this so we can form a group consensus on how to use it rather than just trying it).
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the problem with introverted fucks like you is that your isolation stems from conceit, you are convinced you are alone by choice and volition and not because you had to get accustomed to your pariah status that only got more ossified over time through repeated social rejection (whether you choose to acknowledge this or not). People around you likely do not hold you high in their opinion and you probably don't even understand what all you are missing out on, at least try to figure out the mental configuration those supposed ''normies'' operate from and then reject it once you have proven your ability to be a part of that social cohesion. The most insufferable dudes I know are both introverted and arrogant about their solitary status
You know the saying about "Be at least two of Truthful, Useful, and Kind"?
Even if your armchair psychologizing is accurate (dubious), you still fail 2 out of 3 and seem to have posted this only to be nasty.
I'm only letting you out of the new user filter to give you a temp ban since this isn't actually your first post. You've been around, kind of, for a while. Obviously a sockpuppet though, probably a ban evader. So next time maybe I just don't let you out of the filter.
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