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I suspect that I'm having a depressive relapse after a month or two of genuine euthymia. No surprise that coincides with a return to work and exam grind. My workload is probably 3-10 times what it was on my first rotation. I used to get bored during my shifts. Now I barely have a moment to park my ass, and the other doctors and I have to draw straws to decide who gets to have lunch first. I used to have the time to (at least in theory) revise my notes during working hours or browse the internet. Right now my phone is helpfully noting that I've reduced my screen time by a remarkable margin.
Is this going to get better? Hah. Haha. Hahahaha. This is going to be my life for the next 5 months, no relief from the pain. I am under-medicated for my ADHD. I have worsening migraines. I leave work wanting nothing more than to crawl into bed and stay there.
What clinched the self-diagnosis was sighing. Literal, audible sighing. The last time I was properly depressed, a junior colleague clocked this tell before I did, which surprised me, since I thought I was hiding things well. The literature, predictably, confirms a correlation. (The body keeps the score and occasionally narrates it out loud.) I caught myself doing it yesterday. Then an intern asked me why I was sighing.
@ToaKraka was kind enough to link to the PHQ-9 screening questionnaire lower in the thread. One glance at it made me wince, I didn't have to add up the numbers to know it didn't look good for me.
The good news is that Paper B pressure lifts next week, possibly forever if I pass. I have never failed an exam in my life. That fact is a load-bearing pillar of my self-esteem, and I am aware of how that sentence sounds coming from a psychiatry resident. I'm willing to risk the burnout. The exam has to be cleared eventually, deferring wouldn't buy me study time anyway, and a pass earns me twelve to eighteen months of academic reprieve. The workload stays the same. This is the only consideration keeping me from filing the current monomaniacal focus under "obviously irrational."
Apparently, around 20% of psychiatry residents experience burnout or depression. Lovely. Glad to have good company. I know the pharmacological management of depression like the back of my hand.
Before anyone panics, I'm going to talk to my GP, and warn her that I might need to see a psychiatrist. The last time I did this was slightly awkward, given that I knew precisely what she would suggest before she said it, and she was kind enough to treat me like a fellow professional and go off my self-assessment. I know precisely what to do if it gets too bad to bear.
Let's hope it's just exam stress. Being fully honest, that's not likely to be the case. But it'll help, on the margin. But tripling my stimulant dose?* Proper migraine prophylaxis? More optimism on that front. And I know the NICE referral pathways well enough to demand that I get something more immediate and robust than another course of Standard Antidepressant.
*What a fucking joke. The ADHD assessment and treatment pathway is designed to weed out 90% of people with ADHD before they see an actual psychiatrist. At least if you don't spend a third of a month's wages on a private assessment and consultation. I fell off that wagon because of... depression and ADHD. Getting back on it will be either time consuming or expensive, and I'll take the latter any day of the week.
Oh well. At least I'm not a gynecologist. Gotta look at the bright side of things.
Wishing you luck brother!
Thanks. Glad to be depressed together, and hoping we can get well together. At least you know my advice comes from a place of unusual professional and personal familiarity.
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