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PaperclipPerfector  3d ago (text post)   1421 thread views

Wellness Wednesday for May 13, 2026

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Some or most of what you describe is due to the distinct one-sidedness of male-female friendships, compared to male-male or female-female friendships.

Commonly, a woman will tend to expect a male friend to monkey dance and serve as a meatshield for her; spend effort and money on her; help, provide labor, and do favors for her; in ways she wouldn’t expect a female friend to do.

If a female friend asks for help or a favor, she’ll be more inclined to assist since you gotta help a sista out and everyone knows how difficult it is to be a woman. If a male friend asks for help or a favor, he’s being needy, entitled, and/or pathetic. Doesn’t he know how busy she is and how valuable her time and energy are? Ugh, stupid man-child.

This describes approximately 0 male-female friendships I've had, though some relationships may qualify.

Think you meant female-female friendships in the end of your first paragraph. I may be personally have grown up around many self-centered women, because I noted the female-female friendships seemed shallow without much work put in either direction. Hard to tell though from the outside. This is mostly an observation of my female relatives and former classmates.

Think you meant female-female friendships in the end of your first paragraph.

Indeed, I did. Fixed.

I may be personally have grown up around many self-centered women, because I noted the female-female friendships seemed shallow

Or what if the women you grew up around are not unusually self-centered or their friendships not unusually shallow for women?

It’s pretty funny how female friendship groups tend to be self-selected for similar attractiveness levels, with perhaps the exception of a token fat/ugly friend as popular lore would suggest.

No, I think you are preaching to the choir here, I do believe female-female friendships are more shallow compared to male-male friendships. It's why I think HereAndGone2 has trouble finding friendships worth sustaining, there are too few fish in the pond worth the effort.

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