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The Cat in the Hat Comes to Court
WSJ Article on cultural and political strife in jury rooms
(Note: I tried to archive(dot)is the link, but it kept failing. If one of you internet wizards could post a non-paywalled link, I'd
move to dismiss all chargesappreciate it).The article does the best that journalism can do today; it begins with a pretty fucking cringe anecdote (more on that below), then generalizes, then backs up the generalization with some "stats" on jury surveys. In weaves in the beginning anecdote throughout the piece to keep the reader engaged. It isn't deliberately misleading or negligently undereported, it's just sort of ... meatless.
The TLDR is that the post-COVID cultural / political situation is making it difficult for juries to come to agreements when, ostensibly, the should be or previously were able. The plural of "anecdote" isn't data and, thanks to the many law-pilled Mottizens, it's plain to see how, if one wants to, it's easy to cherry pick cases (and jury conduct, I would presume) that are absolutely wild. Does that mean it's a real trend? Perhaps, perhaps not. Some of the "experts" quoted kind of gesture in that direction, but the article fails to make a definitive case.
Back to the fuckery
The opening of the article details how a grown-ass jury forewoman decided to make halloween costumes for herself and other jurors and then, with the help of a Boomer Karen, hen-pecked everyone into showing up in red/black shirts and then posing for a group photo in the "costumes":
The triggering thing here, with those who have eyes to see, isn't some sort of pearl clutching around the "sanctity of being entrusted as jurors." It is that a cross-generational alliance of the worst kinds of women guilt-forced everyone else to perform a MANDATORY FUN TIME kafabe.
This is the same character as HR-led corporate initiatives like "dress up as your favorite supreme court justice! (Note: all costumes must be Ruth Bader-Ginsberg)" or "Office pajama day!" or, of course, the LGTBQ+ month. No, they don't actually force you to take part (unless, you know, they fucking do) but if you don't the passive-agressive, begging-the-question bullying becomes its own special torment. This is the infamous office space "pieces of flair" absurdity transformed into a political purity test.
When posters like @faceh directly and others (....me) indirectly assert that "women aren't the problem, but the problem is with women" this is what we mean. This is jury duty. These people are strangers to one another. That these two women would find no qualms in trying to enforce their own personal tastes and attitudes onto strangers is exactly the kind of hyper-entitlement, women-are-wonderful thinking that seems to be creating serious issues in societal competency and functioning.
Not even trying to beat the meme-gender allegations. At least it's wholesome to see that the female penchant for regarding the world as a playground for being cute and doing cute, fun things isn't gate-kept by age.
I was also paywalled from the article, but perhaps I can remain blissfully ignorant in hoping that a mistrial was declared here. "The Court hereby finds a manifest necessity for a mistrial due to certain members of the jury being fucking retarded."
Tsk tsk, sounds like someone is lacking in team-player and #Ruthkanda Forever spirit.
The natural eventuality of never having been told "no" all your life.
Although I've generally liked my coworkers across various jobs/companies—as a soft act of rebellion over the years, I've increasingly abstained from work-related mandatory fun sessions, especially if they occur afterhours.
When I first started working I liked attending these for free food and drinks and to chat-up chicks I might not get to otherwise, but nowadays I'm way too its_all_so_tiresome.jpg'd out. I'm already tied up by a given company for 40+ hours a week, to have to further monkeydance and labor Emotionally for it in what would otherwise be my free time feels like a humiliation ritual. I can buy my own food and drinks and meet my own chicks in my free time.
It was a mistrial due to hung jury.
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