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When I went to Green Bay last year for a game, my friends and family who were used to Eagles games at the Vet and the Linc kept warning me not to wear my Eagles gear at Lambeau, because I might be in physical danger.
As a lifelong Packers fan, that's really funny to hear. Obviously if you show up to the stadium wearing the opposing team's colors you're going to get a lot of shit talking (as you should, that makes it fun). But as I'm sure you experienced, it's all friendly shit talking and people aren't going to start throwing hands (even if you were wearing Bears gear).
Oh it was great. It probably helped that I smuggled in a bottle to pass around, but we were all good friends by the final whistle.
But my philly friends were picturing the way that opposing fans get treated at the Linc. One year my dad gave his season tickets at the Vet to a friend who was a Cowboys fan early in the season who went in Cowboys gear, the rest of the year when we went to the games people threw stuff at US because they thought WE were Cowboys fans, even though we were cheering for the Birds.
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What about a Vikings Favre jersey?
Yeah I think that would be fine too. There were a few people vocally upset about Favre going to the Vikings, but most Packers fans don't give a damn about the Vikings - they aren't the rival team, though they seem to think they are. And even the fans who were upset wouldn't take it out on a Vikings fan who came to town.
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If history is anything to go by, also don't go wearing a Santa Claus outfit.
I wore Kelly green and my Randall Cunningham hat, got top-ten drunkest I've ever been, and sang the whole fight song stomping on the bleachers to keep time after every score. The Lambeau fans couldn't have been nicer, there was the exact right amount of booing to make it worth it.
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