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PaperclipPerfector  9d ago (text post)   2669 thread views

Friday Fun Thread for June 12, 2026

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So for weeks I’d been hearing insane levels of word of mouth about the movie Obsession: It heralds the arrival of Gen-Z filmmaking. It says deep things about the anxieties of modern dating. It’s a genuinely spine-chilling horror film. Man, I was hyped.

Then I get to the kinoplex and I am shown a rather dull and prosaic romantic comedy about a man dating a Latina. If there are supernatural elements, I’m not sure where they went. Maybe critics were referring to the bog-standard dark brujeria that the female lead used to ensnare and damn her sensitive white boy gf. I hate to be one the one to tell you this, but they’re all doing that (I bet you believed her when she told you have a tinder account either).

After that it hits all the usual Latina gf notes: the honeymoon phase, the love bombing, the ethnic cuisine, the BPD, the paranoia. And as for the “shocking” twist ending, it was a bit of a downer but statistically that is the second most common way these relationships end, after marriage.

What did you guys think of it? Overall I would rate it 2.5/5, the scene where he’s on the phone with Latina tech support will definitely get a laugh from anyone who’s been there. When it hits streaming it would make a good double feature with Fools Rush In.

Go see The Furious instead, at one point there's a villain/hero sword to sword lock except the swords are bicycles.

… What? The swords are bicycles? I want to know but don’t want to spoil either.

I assume you’re referring to the social dynamic of Latinas seeing one another as dirty whores and thus being constantly paranoid about them (the other ones) seducing their man?

I loved it, and would happily go to see it in the cinema a second time, something I hardly ever do. I have facetiously described it as a film about the horror of ending up in a relationship with an abusive BPD art hoe.

Then I get to the kinoplex and I am shown a rather dull and prosaic romantic comedy about a man dating a Latina.

Sounds like spine-chilling horror to me.

Been there before as well and would not recommend. High intensity and a fast paced 4 months. Glad they showed who they were early on though. Too incompatible in our stages of life.

Then I get to the kinoplex and I am shown a rather dull and prosaic romantic comedy about a man dating a Latina. If there are supernatural elements, I’m not sure where they went.

There’s indeed been reactions on this front, that the horror element of the film was not the supernatural, but rather that of the Latina Girlfriend Experience (or dating young women in general), especially if you’re unaccustomed to dealing with female coffee moments:

  • In ${CurrentYear}, you have little social and/or legal recourse against a chick’s histrionics.

  • Your crush, the Wonderful waifu of your eyes, may very well be some other guy’s side-piece thanks to polygyny and female mate-choice copying.

  • A chick you’re dating could be lying to you about things such as her father dying of cancer, and you may never find out if not for random luck due to your one-itis and lack of information otherwise. Plus, YWBTA if you didn’t #Believe her.

Along similar lines, a screenshot from this film has launched a thousand meme variations. They range from captions like "how your gf looks at you when you ask her to block the guy who 'raped' her in 2019” to the more mundane “how your gf looks at you when you give her solutions instead of validating her feelings.”

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