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PaperclipPerfector  1mo ago (text post)   3371 thread views

Small-Scale Question Sunday for June 14, 2026

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How unreasonable is it to prioritize work over interpersonal connections? I truly enjoy my work and find it so much more gratifying than anything else I have ever done in my life, but there seems to be some sort of prevailing consensus that you are only human if you relate to others? Has anyone else led a somewhat more solitary existence and prioritized only themselves over connections with others (outside of the connections you make at work anyway in a team, although those connections are more transactional in nature)?

How confident are you that this work will actually stay so gratifying for the next x0 years of your life? What if the industry gets automated/offshored? Company goes bankrupt or does layoffs? You get a crappy manager? Develop physical or mental health problems? Or everything else goes fine but you simply don't like it so much anymore at some point?

Not very confident; not very confident that I’d meet people who gratify me similarly either. All this discussion around it is quite interesting, life is hard.

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