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I'm romantically successful and in a decent wealth percentile given my age and effort, but I'm judging society based on their actions and not mine. It only ever make things harder for me instead of working with me. Same for all the other guys I know. We persevere because we're ultimately what keeps the world going, that's why a young man Atlas Shrugged moment would be so powerful.
Being challenged and overcoming challenges is what makes you stronger. Society doesn't work for a lot of people. Everyone probably feels some facet of society is actively making things harder for them, persecution complexes non-withstanding. Beware of anyone who promises you solutions to make society and life simple and easy, they are lying to you.
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Why should it be easy for you? You do seem to be expressing the idea "I am naturally entitled to this amount of good things, why am I not getting them?"
None of us are entitled to anything.
So you support abolishing laws then? I suppose then I could just take some old person's stuff without the socialist violence force gunning for me. Although I'd have to form a squad so some other anarchy raiders don't get me...
That seems to be precisely what you want to do:
What else is "be disloyal, be a leech, drain the country dry and then flee elsewhere" but "I would steal other people's stuff if the law wouldn't come after me".
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Your estimate of your importance is overblown. Societies have always been able to keep running while essentially all the young men were off trying to kill the young men from some other society.
Barely. And those young men were indeed Atlas, because if they didn't do that, the other young men would come in and destroy everything and sell the populace into slavery.
"Young men as protection racket" doesn't make your case sound as good as the Atlas thing.
You talk like you were never under 30 yourself. It wasn't a racket anyway, the US government is a protection racket because there is no enemy at the gates that can't be deterred with state militias. There was genuinely an enemy at the gates back then, and the young men defending didn't collect taxes a lot of the time.
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