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I know a few mixed race families with hapa kids. I'm in one for one thing. I've never heard of this. There are families in which one parent speaks in another language to children, but all communication involving both parents is in English; such as mine. These people are taking it way to far.
Unrelated but I find it funny that calling someone a halfsie is treated like it is racist, so instead we call half-Asians "hapa" which is Hawaiian for "half". We call them halfsies in another language and that's somehow different.
Well, it's okay to say that someone is "black" in America, but refer to them by the Spanish term for the same word and... (ironically, the former used to be considered very offensive as recently as the 2000s, and the latter used to be a standard non-offensive term some time before that).
Negro isn’t that offensive. It just sounds old.
I'd guess that calling a black man a "negro" in the USA would be considered more offensive than calling a hapa a "halfsie." Though I don't have direct experience with either to draw on. I do recall it was around a decade ago when there was some Twitter kerfuffle because some Central/South American lady posted about her black cat being named Negro, which a lot of English speakers took issue with.
Both the NAACP and UNCF are still a thing.
Despite what NAACP stands for, I think "colored person" would still be considered an offensive term to refer to someone these days (unlike the enlightened and inclusive "person of color").
Mercedes Lackey is still, four years later, off the convention circuit.
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