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I keep hearing about how people are totally sure grass-touching can cure many ills, but never the accounts of it actually curing them.
Your mileage may vary on whether I qualify as "cured", but two months ago I discussed how I've been prescribed a laundry list of varying antidepressants and antipsychotics in varying combinations, but didn't find any of them half as effective as simply doing a lot of intense outdoor cardio.
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How would you hear such accounts? They certainly wouldn't be posting them on the internet. They'd be too busy living happy, fulfilling lives.
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I've heard anecdotes of people who were isolated and socially awkward, they moved (usually by choice) to positions that required them to interact with others, and suddenly they had a large friend group and could socialize. (Also heard the opposite, people moved to a new area and felt like they lost social skills.) I'm sure it would normalize some people.
But others are autistic.
I have a hard time seeing how spending a year at a Wyoming ranch would improve the social skills of anyone much.
Learning to STFU is an important social skill!
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Weight lifting and distance hiking cured me. Now it's the rest of society that's the problem.
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Well yeah, presumably good and properly cured people log off.
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