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Wellness Wednesday for August 19, 2026

The Wednesday Wellness threads are meant to encourage users to ask for and provide advice and motivation to improve their lives. It isn't intended as a 'containment thread' and any content which could go here could instead be posted in its own thread. You could post:

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Trying to lose a few pounds eating slightly less and exercising slightly more. Not really seeing progress so far but at least I'm no longer gaining weight. Thinking about buying a condo with a gym in the building just to make things more convenient.

Get on the peptides.

If I eat whatever I want, I oscillate between 260 and 270 pounds. I'm also tall with very broad shoulders so this isn't as bad as it sounds. I'm pretty physically active too so a lot of that is muscle.

Point is, if I watch my diet like a hawk and eat no breakfast, a small snack for lunch, and a reasonable dinner, I seem to level out at 260 pounds, making me wonder why I bother. To actually lose weight I need to be in enough of a deficit that it makes me feel terrible and cuts my cognitive ability roughly in half.

A friend of mine once said that once you're 40 a diet is now mandatory but no longer effective, and that's about right.

ETA: I did try retard and it shifted everything down about 20 pounds, such that I plateau'd at about 240 and stayed there no matter what.