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Welcome to the Motte, an actively dying community since 2019!
No, not dying. Merely evolving into something new, which inevitably involves changes some people view as a loss. It is impossible to please everyone.
True, but I don't think anything is changing in this instance. We're just clarifying a question of permissible practice on a somewhat novel edge case.
I think you misunderstood both my comments here. The change I was referring to was the cumulative change since 2019, of which this particular clarification is just a minor part. The "RIP TheMotte" was a tongue-in-cheek way of pointing out this "clarification" resolves an ambiguity in a direction that makes the forum less personally appealing. Not because it is a major change, but because it is indicative of the direction the wind is blowing. Which to be clear I'm not complaining about--as I said, you can't please everyone.
IIRC this situation involves a multi month long pattern of content posting involving sexual assault and child abuse...in the fun thread.
I don't think thats an unfair mod clarification. It's not like ick stuff is being banned from the CW thread.
This situation involves a multi-month long pattern of content involving material tamer than exists in Hollywood comedies. If that doesn't belong in the "fun thread", then I weep for our culture.
You understand this has involved posting things like court cases about childhood sex abuse? I have a wicked sense of gallows humor and I'm near impossible to offend, and I'm not offended here, it's just not fun or funny, which is the purpose of the FUN thread.
This material is not tamer than what is in Hollywood, unless you mean like Seven, but that is not a fun movie. Some 17 year old in a 90s comedy having sex with a friend's mom and it being played for laughs is not on the same axis.
Even if you were to find an apples to apples comparison (which I don't think you can) a real person being taken advantage of is a different thing entirely.
Edit: OMG I just checked, one of the court cases involved a man having sexual interactions with his 3 year old and 18 month old. There's zero chance you can find anything in Hollywood like that OMG.
That I'll admit I missed and if you're right then mea culpa. I was mostly going off the two prompts that spawned this thread.
EDIT: Using that history to prohibit routine teenage sexual awkwardness is still quite a leap.
After a certain level of misunderstanding I think it's fair to look a little more closely for everyone's safety.
The CW thread should be pretty close to anything goes, but Wed and Fri threads should be reasonable restricted.
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