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Representation in the Last of Us
Because this show is highly popular and ongoing, I’m just going to coat everything in spoiler tags.
I'll admit that I'm typically pretty sensitive to these sorts of things, and while they are obvious in this show, the show is good enough that they're ignorable.
This show is really good. I think towards the end of The Walking Dead, there was this idea that audiences simply didn't have an appetite for zombies anymore, and that's why people were so hard on that show. No, actually, it's just that TWD became horrible.
I will say that everybody on that show seems to be a lot gayer than is statistically reflected in society, and while I love to complain to my wife about how annoying it is that writers will just lazily make characters gay as a way of making the story more dramatic, I ultimately don't care.
My thoughts on the most recent episode: I actually didn't pick up on the CW angle of the rapey cult leader. I know plenty of of protestants who seem about a half a step away from fitting into that archetype.
I'm not watching this show because I didn't play the game, have no interest in the entire Culture War angle around that, and the snippets I saw of the Epic Gay Love Romance Of The Ages episode turned me off because they were such treacly romance like a Mills and Boon/Harlequin novel. But this comment makes me laugh, because suppose they follow her around precisely because she has a kindergarten teacher voice?
They've been conditioned from a young age that when Miss says "Now children, come along with me and let's all play nicely", they automatically say "Yes, Miss" and line up (hand-holding optional) 🤣
(My view on the gay romance episode was that it was too much. I don't care that it's two guys, a short reference to 'oh yeah, they're domestic partners' and then get on with the plot, that's fine. I'd be annoyed by an entire episode about a straight romance as well, because this is supposed to be apocalyptic times and who wants to watch forty-five minutes of "I wuv you" "No, I wuv you more" when what you want is zombie gore action?)
Oh come on...
It's beautiful. People living in some horrifying hellscape, and still managing to find humanity there. Nick Offerman's character made a literal refuge for himself, and eventually somebody he cared about to live in. His work, and his masculinity is what kept them safe. We need more of this, not less. I agree that it seems a little tedious to make these characters gay, but...gay people exist. Slightly autistic sexually confused (I mean because it was implied that Offerman's character suppressed his homosexuality and never acted on it) dudes are the exact type of person I'd expect that have elaborate zombie preps.
My critique for the people who think that telling stories like this is pointless: what is the point of the broader story? None of it is real. It serves no utilitarian purpose at all.
"Some dude and a kid go to Montana" - is that really the whole story? I don't think so.
Very well said. I found the Offerman episode really lovely and it fleshed out the world.
I was disappointed with Ellie's romantic backstory, but that's because it missed the opportunity to show how a teenage female friendship can be so intense and all-encompassing without having a romantic element. That's the kind of story that doesn't get shown enough.
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