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Wellness Wednesday for November 4, 2026

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New Year's resolution check-in:

  • Went to the gym three times last week. I can deadlift 1.82x my bodyweight, squat 1.33x and bench press 0.82x.
  • Have not consumed any pornography since waking up on January 1st.

How goes it @self_made_human, @thejdizzler, @birb_cromble and @ThomasdelVasto?

  1. Work: frustrating week at work because equipment keeps breaking.
  2. Fitness. Knee is still bothering me but I've started running again. Not sure if this is the greatest idea, so checking in with my PT and coach to see if it's safe to do so.
  3. Intellectual stuff. Wrote two blog posts last month, and have been continuing my study of history, although not making as much progress as I would like.
  4. Finances. Ended up spending around $3400 last month, which is pretty typical, giving me a savings rate of 13% after taxes. I apparently have been overcounting taxes significantly, so I'm really saving a lot more than this, but I'm going to keep it like it is this year to make sure I pay capital gains tax appropriately.
  5. Dating. Hung out with my girlfriend once on Thursday night and another time on halloween!
  6. Tarot. No session this week.
  7. Social: friend's halloween party.
  8. Screen time: 2.5 hours phone. Big new phone is really addicting and now I have to bring it to work so my screen time is really on the rise.
  9. Meditation: Have moved up to 15 minutes a day, sometimes twice a day. Looks like I've collectively meditated 7 times (15 minutes each) since the last update, which is huge!

Big new phone is really addicting

Sounds awful. Which awesome new phone is this? Asking for a friend.

Iphone 17e. The screen is much larger and more pleasant to look at, which means I look it at it more.

Thanks! It's always good to know which temptations I should be avoiding...

It's frustrating that apple continues to make phones bigger. I don't want to switch to an android phone because the iPhone is just such a good product, but at the same time I don't want to be spending 2-3 hours a day on this thing after spending 8 hours at work on my computer.

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