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PaperclipPerfector  3d ago (text post)   2814 thread views

Small-Scale Question Sunday for November 8, 2026

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Jensen Huang just got busted having an affair with what's probably a Chinese spy.

Jensen is a wifeguy of 41 years. In some sense he probably never stood a chance.

Blow-ups like this reinforce my bias that while poly/open relationships exist, you can't get away with them if you're a high status man. Sure, if you're a billionaire CEO, your wife may say she's okay with a discreet affair but she'll deny it and throw you to the wolves (and take you to the cleaners) if it ends up on the front page of the NYT. Similarly, women having affairs with married billionaire CEOs may be driven crazy by being #2 bitch in a way that they wouldn't really mind if the man had normal status. And if they are okay with it, it's probably because they're spies.

Now Jensen's wife hasn't said anything about divorcing him, but he's publicly apologizing to her and his family for this, so I presume they at least need to keep up the appearance that they're not poly. Since poly is low status.

Am I wrong?

Blow-ups like this reinforce my bias that while poly/open relationships exist, you can't get away with them if you're a high status man.

No, the reason Jensen can’t get away with this is that he got honeypotted by China. If this were some random c-list aspiring K-pop star he got busted busting with, no one other than his wife would care.

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