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The teams being out on the field for the anthem wasn't a thing in the NFL until 2009, but Mike Tomlin's attempt to turn back the clock a mere eight years was also unacceptable to conservatives. And while wearing symbols of the LGBT movement isn't a majority position, what does that have to do with anything? It wasn't the league norm to have military appreciation nights until relatively recently. Would it be acceptable for an athlete who opposed some war to refuse to wear a camo jersey? The NHL added ads to jerseys this year and most fans hate it. Should a player who doesn't like it either get a free pass to not wear it? The norm is that you wear the uniform provided and don't nitpick about the design.
Refusing to wear a camo jersey I would have a lot more support for than refusing to take a knee cuz racism based on cops killing blacks (since cops kill a lot of whites and the entire difference in rates is explainable). But someone can make a really good anti military argument based on Cheney’s WMD lies.
A lot of the reason I hated Kap is his arguments were stupid. And he lacks numeracy.
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Please explain how honoring the military is related to “self-defense”? What if I believe that the military is not in fact defending me, but actually making me less safe, both in the short and long term? Does “dishonoring” the military make me less safe? If not, how is it related to my self-defense?
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Absolutely, and Muhammad Ali is hailed a hero for refusing to fight in Vietnam.
I have to agree with Rov…I feel certain my grandfather would have had some choice words for Ali, probably starting with an N.
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Fox News didn't exist in 1966, but if it did, do you think its viewers would have hailed him as a hero? This question wasn't addressed to you specifically, it was rhetorically addressed to the kind of person who has a problem with both Pride Night and Colin Kaepernick.
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