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Culture War Roundup for the week of March 20, 2023

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And that justice, ultimately, was served.

Justice delayed is justice denied, and anyway he's still cancelled and will still be known for the accusations. We already see people here in this thread rationalizing away the retraction.

TBH I don't even know why people settle like this. The damage is done, you should do as much damage to them as possible.

It's especially inexplicable imo in cases like Johnny Depp's. Avellone might have wanted to avoid a public and embarrassing trial about his sex life. Depp had basically exposed everything anyway.

Why settle with Heard unless she full retracted everything in public?

What more would he get from a full victory in court? I doubt the women have substantial assets to seize, they've admitted to fabricating the original claims. A judgment in civil court isn't going to convince anyone not also convinced by the settlement statement.

I suppose if you really wanted to release a bunch of embarrassing evidence about one side, fighting to the end might help but there is always some uncertainty around the jury so I'd imagine it's tough to pass up an offer that gives 80% of what you were claimed as damages.

Because that sort of lawsuit is probably terrible and stressful to go through and he wanted it over?

I was thinking about that too. There’s a permanent asterisk next to his name, where people won’t want their daughters to date managers to hire someone who was uncool enough to get accused.

I guess the idea is to capture that in monetary damages, but yeah, I do hope he’s able to find work.