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Mindfulness as an extreme form of withdrawal
What follows are my conclusions from the research I painstakingly did to better understand my wife's spiritual past with Vipassana.
It is this simple: the word ‘mindfulness’ (which means more or less the same as ‘watchfulness’, ‘heedfulness’, ‘regardfulness’, ‘attentiveness’) has taken-on the Buddhist meaning of the word for most seekers (just like the word ‘meditation’ which used to mean ‘think over; ponder’), and no longer has the every-day meaning as per the dictionary. The Buddhist connotations come from the Pali ‘Bhavana’ (the English translation of the Pali ‘Vipassana Bhavana’ is ‘Insight Meditation’). ‘Bhavana’ means ‘to cultivate’, and, as the word is always used in reference to the mind, ‘Bhavana’ means ‘mental cultivation’. ‘Vipassana’ means ‘seeing’ or ‘perceiving’ something with meticulousness discernment, seeing each component as distinct and separate, and piercing all the way through so as to perceive the most fundamental reality of that thing and which leads to intuition into the basic reality of whatever is being inspected. Thus ‘Vipassana Bhavana’ means the cultivation of the mind, aimed at seeing in a special way that leads to intuitive discernment and to full understanding of Gotama the Sakyan’s basic precepts. In ‘Vipassana Bhavana’ , Buddhists cultivate this special way of seeing life. They train themselves to see reality exactly as it is described by Gotama the Sakyan, and in the English-speaking world they call this special mode of perception: ‘mindfulness’.
Consequently, when the Buddhist practitioner carefully cultivates ‘mindfulness’, it is a further withdrawal from this physical world than what ‘normal’ people currently experience in the illusionary ‘reality’ of their ‘real world’. All Buddhists (just like Gotama the Sakyan) do not want to be here at this place in space – now at this moment in time – as this flesh and blood form, walking and talking and eating and drinking and urinating and defecating and being the universes’ experience of itself as a reflective and sensate human being. They put immense effort into bringing ‘samsara’ (the Hindu endless round of birth and death and rebirth) to an end ... if they liked being here now they would welcome their rebirth and delight in being able to be here now again and again as a human being. They just don’t wanna be here (not only not being here now but never, ever again). Is it not so blatantly obvious that Gotama the Sakyan just did not like being here? Does one wonder why one never saw his anti-life stance before? How on earth can someone who dislikes being here so much ever be interested in bringing about happiness on earth? In this respect he was just like all the Gurus and God-Men down through the ages ... the whole lot of them were/are anti-life to the core. For example:
It can be seen that he clearly and unambiguously states that he (Gotama the Sakyan) is ‘the eternally abiding, unchanging, fine and mysterious essential body’ even to the point of repeating it twice (‘the Tathagata is eternally abiding without any change’) and (‘the Tathagata eternally abides without any change’) so as to emphasise that ‘someone who is able to know that the Tathagata is eternally abiding without any change ... shall be born into the Heavens above’. And to drive the point home as to just what he means he emphasises that ‘the body that eats is not the essential body’ ... which ‘essential body’ can only be a dissociated state by any description and by any definition. Whereas I am this body that eats ... and nothing other than this.
Put briefly, the idea of meditation is to cut off from sensate experiencing and to stop thinking (as in become the watcher) and allow imagination and affectation to take over … and lo and behold … a new very-grand ethereal-like alter-identity emerges.
There's some truth to this. But also a lot of confusion (I won't go into technical nuances others have explained to you well enough). Buddhism does appeal to pessimists, yet some have reinterpreted it into a life-affirming religion that only seeks to restore authenticity of the impersonal Being and eradicate the ego, the internal bureaucrat begetting the target of suffering, the self-important rampaging mechanism for stringing together episodic memories… which in the West got further trivialized into «mindfulness» practices popular with the middle class, which promise ridding the client of neuroses, conflict-prone behaviors and such. The less is said of «Eastern Spirituality» gurus of the second half of the 20th century, the better. But then in Tibet you have praying wheels and the rest of blatantly Hindu silliness which Gautama Buddha himself, atheist of the highest caliber, would probably just sigh at.
It's very hard, perhaps impossible to convey even very simple truths such that no meaning drift will occur – especially when the straightforward interpretation of your truth creates a selection mechanism winnowing out those who see it most clearly. Religion may start as a coherent philosophy, but it matures and stabilizes on the level of ritual that soothes the traumatized peasant – without driving him or her into extremes of societally disapproved cultism. Maybe that's what it's best used for.
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Like Borges says in his book about buddhism "the conversion of a congolese negro to the faith of Jesus Christ is really the conversion of the faith of Jesus Christ to a congolese negro". People are just going to do whatever they want, I even see it with american online catholics: why are you doing lent and reading the bible? Why aren't you worshipping your local saint/icon of mary?
its not like the romans did not change christianity when they converted to it.
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You'd almost think it isn't a polytheistic religion.
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The sutta you quote is a Mahayana one. When it talks about an "eternally abiding... essential body" that's most likely a reference to the Mahayana concept of Buddha Nature, which has nothing to do with individual disassociation.
Vipassana as commonly understood today is a practice associated with Theravada Buddhism, which doesn't believe in Bhudda nature.
It is the same with all branches of Buddhism. For instance, from Anatta-Lakkhana Sutta (The Discourse on the Not-self Characteristic, SN 22.59; PTS: SN iii.66)
Note well it says "there is nothing further for this world" ... if that is not a clear indication of a withdrawal from this sensate material world I would like to know what is.
Yes, this is a description of temporary withdrawal from the sensate material world in meditation, culminating in awakening. 'There is nothing further for this world' means that the goal of Buddhist practice has been reached, not that the practitioner intends to spend the rest of his life in some mental la-la land.
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Have I been using "mindfulness" wrong all this time? I've been using it to mean deliberately activating system 2 thinking for system 1 activities like eating, brushing teeth, riding a train, listening to a song or making small talk: don't automate, don't let your mind wander, don't multitask, concentrate fully on the activity and perform it deliberately.
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Yes, I understand it that way as well. Very relevant text, I think, for thinking about it without 'spiritual' vagueness: I believed the hype and did mindfulness meditation for dumb reasons-- now I'm trying to reverse the damage - it speculates on what mindfulness does, physically. Also it shows why more mindfulness is not necessarily better.
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I think Tolle's "watcher" is the simplest corroboration of the concept I'm trying to get across. From his book "The Power of Now" (on page 99),
As to what he means by "your inner body" there is this (on page 92):
Needless is it to add that this is not at all even close to being the universes’ experience of itself as a reflective and sensate human being?
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I have some experience with Vipassana and have been to a couple of ten day retreats. Without getting into long term spiritual goals (such as ending the cycle of reincarnation described above), I would like to talk about some practical effects of the practice.
You need to separate insight meditation from mindfulness meditation. Insight meditation is absolutely an inner withdrawal from sensate experiencing. In the Vipassana context, you heighten your examination of physical sensations of the body to the point that it dissolves your typical state of awareness of your surroundings. Even your awareness of your body dissolves to the point that 'The Watcher' is all that is left. Then a bunch of other things happen of which I'm probably not experienced enough to speak about into in detail, but you effectively separate your mind from your body. You also separate your awareness from your thoughts leading to realisations like 'you are not your thoughts' which can lead to a paradigm shift in what you think 'You' are and what existence is.
Mindfulness however is a quietening of the mind that allows for full sensate experience without distraction from thoughts (at least full sensation after you complete the meditation session). Using a focus (such as your breath) and stopping your normal cognitive behaviour of engaging with your thoughts eventually slows and stops the normal stream of thought consciousness. For someone who lives in their head (like many people on this board), this can offer a radically different experience. It can allow peace and freedom from thought provoked anxiety. As a practical tool, mindfulness meditation is an amazing way to rest your mind and offer respite from stress. In this state you become 'The Watcher', but still have normal sensation and awareness of your surroundings. For someone who has any sort of cognitive based anxiety, or otherwise needs respite from intrusive thoughts, I highly recommend learning mindfulness meditation as a tool that will increase your resilience to stress.
Edits: Trying to flesh things out a bit.
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One of tinder's (the dating app) newer features is the ability to add predefined interests to your profile. These range from various outdoor activities, hobbies, leftwing political causes, or just other random things like sushi.
One of the interests is "mindfulness" which really confused me. I figured it had to mean more than just "thinking a lot" because that is way too cringe to be one of the options. Eventually I figured it must be something spirituality related just because that kind of stuff is also well-represented in the choice of interest options.
When did "mindfulness" become a shibboleth?
I think it appeals to a range of groups: it avoids the financial and medical problems of anti-depressants etc., while also not requiring practitioners to confront their self-defeating thoughts and behaviours. As an approach to stress, anxiety, depression etc., it thus has the "benefits" of exercise and other methods that (I think) seem to work primarily through distraction rather than resolving cognitive problems. And it distills what Westerners usually like to think that the East is about:
(Jefferson Starship, "Ride the Tiger")
Spiritual, but without the burdens of actually and definitely believing in spirits, miracles, and all the other things that everyday Buddhists in the actual East have told me are the key features of Buddhism. No, it's really about living in the moment and finding yourself - a low cost American road trip, with incense.
Less cynically, it seems to have also become a term for engaged, purposeful, focused ways of living, which are probably conducive towards happiness.
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