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Culture War Roundup for the week of April 10, 2023

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My take is that 'groomer' is not even a real thing that anyone (modulo lizardmen) believes -- the right is just casting about for weapons.

I don't think it's a particularly good weapon, but it's better than lying down and taking it I suppose.

Them: Obvious demons demanding their right for public sexual performances, insisting prepubescent children must participate

You: This is a nothingburger

Me: Jesus Christ, King of Kings, King of my soul, forgive my years astray in Satan's grasp, forgive us all, for we know not what we do.

Either you misunderstood me pretty bad, or I'm misunderstanding you -- to be clear, do you actually believe that a significant number of the teachers etc who go around 'affirming' transness are doing it for purposes of future sexual gratification? If so you are one of the rare exceptions, but I think it's a pretty uncommon belief even among those who are calling people groomers.

I actually believe that a significant number of teachers are sexually/satanically activating prepubescent children for the purpose of future sexual gratification. That does not necessitate the groomer is the ‘beneficiary’

Like I say, I think maybe one in a hundred people using the term right now agree with you -- that doesn't even mean you're wrong necessarily, just that lots of people will say stuff they don't quite mean if they think it will hurt their enemies.

I'm fine with it as an expression of hatred/frustration, but I don't think it's a way of winning.

It's just a personal preference, but I deeply hope you're wrong. Both about 'lots of people,' and the consequences.

Why the fixation on calling people groomers? If there are better ways of winning, why not use them?

Suggestions?

Well it's a hard problem, obviously -- I've been trying some variant of "think of the children" and "turning the gay kids trans" with a certain amount of success when talking to moderate normies. Obviously this won't work with the true believers, but their rhetoric has generated enough epicycles that there's quite a few you can turn around to bite them.