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Contrapoints released her newest video yesterday. As someone who has found a number of her past videos to be well done and interesting (they're generally better the further back you go), this one was disappointing. Some random thoughts:

Contrapoints made a name for herself through actually engaging with the "alt-right" and by being willing to make real arguments in response to conservatives; now it seems like she's totally bought into some of the worst argumentation styles of the woke left. Most annoying to me is the frequency with which Natalie begs the question by referring to "trans rights" as if they're some unobjectionable, neutral thing that only "bigots" could oppose. Interestingly, the only time she actually concretely discusses a supposed "trans right" (males competing in women's sports), she agrees that there is a debate to be had here. Of course, no mention of kids transitioning, males in women's prisons, etc. Just "trans rights" in the abstract. The one thing Contrapoints is clear about is that not acknowledging that "trans women are women" is at the least "transphobic" (if not a violation of "trans rights" in some hard to define way), which is interesting. What does it mean to be "transphobic"? Could one not be "transphobic" and still refuse to acknowledge that "trans women are women"? Because I would like to say that I'm not "transphobic" on the basis that I don't think trans people should be denied rights that we accord to others, or that they should be forcibly prevented from dressing like women, or even (if over 18) allowed to surgically alter themselves to match their desired gender identity (perhaps with some reasonable safeguards).

I think she makes some good arguments about the fact that there are always limits to debate. She talks about how LGBTQ activists essentially "cancelled" an old anti-gay activist Anita Bryant, with the implication that most people nowadays would agree with that cancellation. Of course, I would simply say that there are meaningful differences between gay activism and trans activism (e.g., gay people were fighting against laws that criminalized consensual behavior between adults; trans people often are fighting to allow children to mutilate themselves). Nonetheless, I do take her point: Arguing against "cancellation" or "illiberal" tactics in the abstract is kind of pointless, because almost no one is a true free speech absolutist here. If, say, someone was going around and gathering a following by literally advocating for the murder of Jews, I think a lot of us would agree that public shaming (at the least) would be appropriate. That means that one must always have some object-level discussion about what people are being cancelled for before one can reasonably argue that any given cancellation is unacceptable. It's hardly a groundbreaking observation, but it's true nonetheless that there must be a line somewhere that would make "cancel culture" type tactics acceptable; we're all just debating where that line is.

Finally, I was surprised to see how much more aggressive Rowling has gotten in her anti-trans rhetoric. Not that I necessarily disagree with her, but it looks like I can no longer say that she's being unfairly smeared as an enemy of the trans movement.

Anyways, I would be curious on others thoughts here (assuming anyone is willing to watch a nearly two hour video by someone most would consider an ideological opponent.

Whatever came of Contrapoints getting canceled by other trans figures? Some right-wingers gloated about meta-cancer back then, but I guess you don't really cancel your stars after all?

Contrapoints made a name for herself through actually engaging with the "alt-right" and by being willing to make real arguments in response to conservatives

This is a narrative which was promoted by the media, yes, I even imagine there's a grain of truth in it, but if she actually engaged with the «alt-right», it was on the condescending level of cooing and petting a spooked animal (and argument-free reviews to the effect of «I used to be in a dark place as a 4channer giganazi Cookie Monster joke enjoyer, but Contra detransitioned deradicalized me, thanks now I can be myself» only reinforce this image. I have to plug in my old post «On Nazi Whisperers and closed memetic surfaces».

In general, there are a few things I try to do to prepare for these sorts of debates. One has to do with simply picking the right people to debate. The point of a debate is not to convince the person I’m talking to, it’s to convince people watching. So before you even start the debate you want to think about whether the people watching it are persuadable.

Saul responds to Fritz by completely shutting down, by being baffled and bewildered and offended and shocked. He's frankly astonished... If Cockbane debated Fritz nothing productive would happen but at least she wouldn't be bullied. She'd interrupt, accuse, get real ugly. ... So if there's a "lesson" I guess it's that we have to work on not being Saul. Maybe that means walking out of rooms like that. Or maybe it means developing anti-Fritz rhetorical strategies. But I honestly don't yet know what those are. I can't say I've ever seen someone in debate with a Pepe-grinning fascist come out on top. But if it could be done it'd be worth doing.

Almost four years later, I still can't get into the mindset of a person who thinks his side loses every unbiased debate, but keeps believing in the cause and evangelizing it. This is a total profanation of what debates mean to me, on any level from the most brutish, chimp-like rhetorical power contest to the most quokka-esque rationalist «collaborative inquiry»; if not rigorous doubt, then at least depressive resignation ought to settle in as a result of repeatedly getting routed, I feel.

What I do know is that such robust belief grows coupled with disregard for debate and honesty in general.

Whatever came of Contrapoints getting canceled by other trans figures? Some right-wingers gloated about meta-cancer back then

She apologized and managed to not piss them off a second (well, third actually) time (yet).

but I guess you don't really cancel your stars after all?

When you're cancelling your enemies the goal is to get a scalp, and to put a friend in the position they were occupying. But when you're cancelling a friend, the goal is just to ensure they stay on message.

I suppose sometimes you can cancel a friend that outlived their purpose, and you want to replace them, just as you would an enemy, but that day is not today.