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One of the funnier things about San Francisco: it's easier to purchase meth or fent here than a vape. Not even a slight exaggeration. I can find a obvious dealer on a corner in less than a 5 minute walk, and the city does nothing to police them. For vapes, though, you've got to go to certain local stores and convince them to sell it to you from behind the counter, as the city feels like it's a good use of time and money to send in undercover agents to enforce the ban. Can't even have them shipped here.
(Degenerate vaper here.)
One thing I'm not proud of is that I've used crystal meth on and off for over a decade now, and unless you have, too, I think you may be inaccurate in your assessment of who will and will not sell you drugs.
Finding drugs actually got quite a bit more difficult for me after the first time an 'obvious dealer' sold me an $80 bag of aquarium pebbles—an embarrassing mistake on my part I'm only willing to admit because I already know you vape.
Never used meth myself (no judgment), but I have several friends who've used it pretty regularly. Although the dealers sell things of various purity and quality, it doesn't seem too common for it to be totally fake (as opposed to adulterated with other substances that range from biologically inert to deadly).
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Given that you say it's on and off, I assume you aren't physically dependent on the meth? No judgement here, I'm just curious because nobody else here ever copped to it.
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