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Culture War Roundup for the week of May 1, 2023

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In this NYT article, race isn't mentioned, so I assumed it was either a black-on-black or black-on-white killing, but apparently it was white-on-black! It's unusual for the NYT to not mention race in such a situation. Could it be that they're finally downplaying all races in their

crime reporting, and not just the ones that it's offensive to speak negatively about? That sounds too good to be true, but I want to believe.

What our hapless marine did not understand is that homeless people are basically aristocracy. The correct, society prescribed and legally enforced thing to do when a homeless crazy person goes on a rant and starts throwing things and yelling is to back away slowly. If you can't (in this case, because you're in a subway car), you just cringe and endure it and hope it doesn't go beyond that. You don't make eye contact, and you certainly don't fight -- as the old saying goes, if you lose you go to the hospital and if you win you go to jail.

Here's a novel suggestion on the appropriate response to being screamed at by a belligerent vagrant:

I don't know about you, but if I could spend $100 to keep somebody from being strangled to death, I'd happily hand over $100. So if you see someone in distress in public, before you strangle them to death, consider just giving them $100.

Some might suggest that this might not be the best incentive structure to line up, but those someone's simply don't understand that someone "having a mental health crisis" is both sacred and simply cannot respond to incentives.

So that guy makes it rain every time he sees a homeless person?

There are so many ways to help homeless people; from giving money to nonprofits, to volunteering, etc.

The smug response of 'you should just give them a hundred', is nothing but smug self-righteousness. He's not making anything better, he's just making himself feel superior.

The incentive structure is not the point. The point is that the person sending the tweet has a good heart.

A heart that good needs an Aztec priest to be fully appreciated.

Which brings us back around to what appears to be an irreconcilable difference in worldviews. I don't regard someone that thinks giving cash to belligerent vagrants is a good plan as having a good heart anymore than I regard someone that leaves some treats out for grizzly bears as having a good heart.

I think OP's point is that their actions are to broadcast the image having a good heart, not necessarily actually having one.

I always get amused, darkly, when these people happily place benefit of the doubt on the person demonstrating their disregard for other people's interests and safety. The guy asking for $100 is assumed to have a nigh-angelic nature, while the other person must be either greedy or murderous to refuse?

Other forms as well:

"So what if they broke into your house? They just want your stuff!"

"If someone tries to take your car, let them. It gets worse if you fight back!"

"Shoplifting is a victimless crime! If someone needs something so badly that they'll steal it, it's probably better to let them go."

There are certain lines that are generally understood that, if crossed, means other people will assume you mean them harm or otherwise pose a threat. And they ain't going to try to read your mind to figure out if you are merely crazy or desperate or in need or have the will to do them grievous bodily injury or even kill.

And as soon as I've updated to believing that you pose a significant risk of harm to me or a loved one, the calculation in my mind isn't a binary between "Pay $100 or strangle them to death." Its "Do I have to fight this guy? Can I escape? What will he do if I try to walk away? Does he have a weapon?" and "how quickly can I incapacitate him?"

I'm reasoning under uncertainty here. If I thought that handing over $100 would be guaranteed to de-escalate the situation, and the guy would go on his way and bother me no more maybe that's the better option.

But there's literally no way for me to know that, so I have to work off the evidence I have in front of me, which is someone acting erratically and making demands which is evidence that they are probably dangerous, and may escalate if I try to placate them.

So yeah, fuck false dilemmas.

I always get amused, darkly, when these people happily place benefit of the doubt on the person demonstrating their disregard for other people's interests and safety. The guy asking for $100 is assumed to have a nigh-angelic nature, while the other person must be either greedy or murderous to refuse?

The Rittenhouse case was particularly silly.

Rittenhouse shot people who did exactly as he did - bring a gun to a volatile situation - but he had far more evidence of acting in good faith and non-aggressively (honestly, the fact that he was really walking around cleaning up graffiti seems like the sort of thing a conservative hack writer would add to make him more sympathetic).

But somehow he's damned.

In retrospect that kid is OBSCENELY lucky that there were multiple cameras showing the series of events and thus made it pretty damn clear that he wasn't an aggressor.

Absent that, he'd probably be in prison, possibly forever.