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Wellness Wednesday for May 3, 2023

The Wednesday Wellness threads are meant to encourage users to ask for and provide advice and motivation to improve their lives. It isn't intended as a 'containment thread' and any content which could go here could instead be posted in its own thread. You could post:

  • Requests for advice and / or encouragement. On basically any topic and for any scale of problem.

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  • Advice. This can be in response to a request for advice or just something that you think could be generally useful for many people here.

  • Encouragement. Probably best directed at specific users, but if you feel like just encouraging people in general I don't think anyone is going to object. I don't think I really need to say this, but just to be clear; encouragement should have a generally positive tone and not shame people (if people feel that shame might be an effective tool for motivating people, please discuss this so we can form a group consensus on how to use it rather than just trying it).

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A random yet poignant quote I once read was along the lines of- "There came a day in your life when your parents put you down and never picked you back up again."

I feel like I'm on my last "family vacation", in the sense of a vacation organized and sponsored by my parents with me and my brother along for the ride. My parents are getting old, the once plastered over cracks in the invincibility one puts up in front of one's kids are now glaringly obvious, and soon enough I'll be an independent adult living in an entirely different country two oceans away, lucky to make enough time to meet them once or twice a year.

At least it's going nicely, Thailand is a gorgeous place, and I think I've earned the right to kick back on the beach and sip a piná colada while the waves lap at my feet. Nice, but also melancholy, because I know it can't last.

Go hug your parents while you still have them. Or at least call. The thought that all this will sooner rather than later come to an end makes my heart ache.

This Wait But Why piece hit me on that front.

Nice to see a visual representation of how short something is, vs the usual how much money Elon Musk has.