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Because even though trans activism hasn't changed much over the lifetime of TheMotte (including the subreddit), you started speaking out against it only recently.
What are you talking about? No one "pointed it out to me", this was what SubstantialFrivolity said before I even joined the conversation, and I have two issues with it:
Even if everything happened as you described it, she didn't act like a jerk. Even kind of. You need to actually argue for it.
What you provided is not evidence.
With SubstantialFrivolity there's the additional issue that when one side is acting so much worse than the other, and you're putting the actions off the party that was acting better under a microscope, that's ridiculously unfair. The result is people like BurdensomeCount claiming she was using her privilege to take the bike away from them.
What I say about trans now is not much different from what I've always said about trans. I may agree that the trend has snowballed, which is of greater concern. You seem to be selectively noticing things.
I think you are very poor at modeling people to whom you've decided you are in opposition.
*Shrug*
I don't know what's going on inside your head any more than you know how you come off to others. I freely admit my memory isn't the best, maybe yours is better and you can maintain neutrality when discussing yourself, but it's only natural for people to be biased in their own favor, so absent evidence to the contrary I'd bet that whole bit about selective memory applies just the same to you.
Selective noticing is a plague I guess, because I noticed the same thing. Maybe @Amadan's opinion hasn't changed, but his willingness to express it definitely has.
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