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What? Are you saying that the op itself is the drama which the op brought down upon us? What does "drama" mean?
We're saying "Don't start a thread here just to bitch about how you got banned on reddit."
I know what the general stance is, but @cjet79 said
And then
Am I out of line for asking him to explain what he meant by that? I don't want to bring drama down upon us. Or are you saying I should ignore that line of reasoning and just not write ops bitching about reddit bans?
I'm not sure why exactly you need "drama" described.
Drama is personal conflict. Its spreading rumors, playing games of 'he said, she said'. Its getting into the details of personality. Its petty. It is ultimately just about the people.
I don't fully agree with this quote, but I agree with the gradient. Ideas are low drama, discussing people is high drama. The more personal and close you are to the people the higher the drama. Talking about distant politicians that no one here knows can kinda be low drama (but some posters disagree and don't want us to even allow insulting politicians).
Not out of line, but this will probably be my last attempt to explain things.
Wrong way to think of it. You are not sitting in traffic, you are traffic. OP both was the drama, and in danger of bringing more.
That is definitely a take-away I'm trying my best to explain how you go from high level rules to a specific takeaway like "don't bitch about reddit bans". I'm also not entirely sure that is even an accurate takeaway. I think you could easily write an effortpost about reddit bans, how you think the moderator problems are causing reddit to slowly die, how you have been banned from subreddits for seemingly minor things, etc. If you kept the post out of the specifics of "I said x, the mod then said y, then they banned me, then i challenged them in modmail with z" then it would probably be fine. Some of the responses to the original post are examples of how a top level comment could have been made and been fine.
An excellent explanation, thank you.
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