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Culture War Roundup for the week of July 3, 2023

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Not going to report this because I don’t know if it breaks any rules, but you’re the one being a hater here friend. You didn’t even try to discuss anything about the thrust of his post, just told him his relationship was doomed. Come on now.

At least try to engage with the substance, and maybe throw this in as a post text if you absolutely have to.

Oh, how heckin magnanimous of you not to report, friend. Very wholesome.

If not for the “no, u” remark about being a hater, I would had thought this comment was meant elsewhere.

This is merely isolated policing of “thrust” engagement. I engaged; you just didn’t like the content of the engagement. At least ten of the paragraphs in OPs post were directly talking about the girlfriend, albeit granted some of the paragraphs were short.

So come on now, less of this mod-LARPing and passive aggressive condescension please.

Hey man, the Motte wouldn't be what it is without passive aggressive condescension. I find attacking someone's relationship online who you barely know based on one data point to be particularly distasteful. In general, I think the CW thread should be more focused on actual topics and arguments than our personal lives.

I don't feel like it's report worthy myself.

Deeply misguided, certainly, but that's not something I want to see being punished unless there's no other recourse.