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Small-Scale Question Sunday for August 6, 2023

Do you have a dumb question that you're kind of embarrassed to ask in the main thread? Is there something you're just not sure about?

This is your opportunity to ask questions. No question too simple or too silly.

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A lot of the time when dating comes up, someone will say “go and join your local church”. At least in my case, I go to (Catholic) Mass on Sundays but it’s a church service not a social occasion so I don’t meet people.

What people seem to mean is “join a community centred around a church” which is a rather different thing. Can anyone give me some advice about what kind of groups / notices I ought to look for? I’m not in Europe or America which makes things a bit harder.

Your goal isn't necessarily to meet a girl, it could also be to meet her family. There are probably more single girls than guys in the church, and at a degree of remove many more. Many girls won't like a set up from family, skip those women.

Look for opportunities to volunteer. Time Talent and Treasure; the ones you happen to have give to the church. Work will cause you to interact with and get to know people.

Nothing gives you more credibility with a woman than the respect of others.