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Culture War Roundup for the week of September 18, 2023

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Okay, and?

You keep getting warned and banned for low effort antagonism. (8 mod actions, and looking through your post history, plenty of posts that get reported and left untouched) This post isn't an egregious example. But its another example in a long list of them.

Do you not know how you come across? Or do you know and don't care? I suppose that is a rhetorical question. If you can't learn we will head towards a perma-ban eventually. If you don't care to learn then maybe the motivation hasn't been sufficient up until now.

I'll give you ten day ban to lurk and read more. Hopefully that will provide either the motivation, or the space to learn what behaviors we don't like.

"women have it so tough because men are so evil" falls flat to me. I have no sympathy for it. I spent my entire youth being told that women's #1 priority is to avoid "abuse" and that any time a woman lied to me or flaked on me or was less than honest with me it was because I made her "feel unsafe." I'm reeeeealy tired of hearing it.

Then you can say that, rather than list an anecdote that doesn't look very related and leave your post at that.

Anyway.

Yeah, people lie. Lots. Oldest problem in the world. I'd appreciate if we might all be sincere as much as the next autist does, but we've got to live with the world we have. So it goes.

Funnily enough, women lying to you, flaking on you, or being less than honest with you could very well have been because you made them feel insufficiently unsafe: Guy who likes you, but you're not quite attracted to him starterpack: Somewhat cute, non-threatening appearance.