Some of you (OK so like... three of you) may remember the last time I ran a survey on political values; I was really happy with the responses everybody gave me at TheMotte, and now a few other people I know who post on Substack are wanting to use the results to answer some questions of their own. So long story short, here's another poll:
Don't worry if you think you're unusual and might skew the results - in fact we'd very much appreciate your perspective, whatever it is.
Thanks guys!
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No email address required.
Notes -
I was reading the items on Aella's graph and my face hardening into an ever more pronounced frown the further right I went.
I found that graph very funny. "Sensuality" listed as a fetish stunned me for a second.
There is apparently a continuum of tabooness from white to Asian to black...
"Indifference" is a fetish now.
There's a subreddit called something like "bored and ignored", for videos of couples having sex and the woman is paying no attention to the man e.g. because she's too engrossed in the video game she's playing. Half a million subscribers - no idea how that compares to other fetish subs but it seems like there's a sizeable market for this kind of content.
[cw: links are all login-walled, but still porn]
"Disinterested sex" or "distracted sex" are some other kinks that probably get lumped into the same category: for some furry examples see SamurShalem (gay, straight with open relationship content), Jishinu (straight) or Braeburned (gay). This can sometimes be femdomish or about embarrassing the top, but it's often as much someone being accommodating or challenging the top to impress them, or a kinder and gentler (and less stranger-focused) freeuse sorta thing.
How do you make the 18+ thing come up?
For comments, after you've submitted a comment, click the "..." button to the right of "Delete", and then click "Mark 18+".
For posts, there's a selectable box under the main text box, between "Notify Followers" and "Draft". I believe Posts can similarly be marked 18+ after-publication from the "..." menu.
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