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You and your coworker are suffering from a condition that zoomers would prescribe "touching grass" as a solution to.
Honest advice. Get a grip.
Life is still unkind to most people in the World. Poverty, Death and Disease are a reality for everyone in the world. While you are lamenting about how your descendants will look 300 years from now, your Third World analogue is lamenting the early death of his wife to Tuberculosis.
Living in a racially heterogeneous society is like the 50th thing you should worry about if you want your descendants to live a good life. So you either are ignorant about how bad those 49 other things are or you think this thing is possibly so bad that it is that much more dreadful, neither of which paints you in a rational light.
For all you know your great^n descendants could be murderers and rapists. They could like in a nuclear wasteland. They could be homeless etc. They could be CHINESE. Just take the problem of raising your own children to be the kind of people who will take raising their own children seriously as well, and you will kind find yourself not worrying about what they will look like 200 years later.
The hypothetical politics [+demographics] of the future should not be keeping you up at night, the matters of self improvement and your own immediate family (NOW IN THE PRESENT) and their well being should. Keep your spouse happy, keep your parents happy, keep your kids happy, be useful to your friends, your community and yourself. Embody good culture within yourself and live it, instead of lamenting its dilution through the gene pool. Walk the walk.
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