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Culture War Roundup for the week of September 19, 2022

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Is that insufficiently or invalidly bad?

Imagine, to pose an unreasonable extreme, everything beautiful in the world becoming ugly and disfigured. That would be a mere aesthetic change, but it would also drive near anyone to suicide. If we are agreed that this should ought to be prevented, we can then begin negotiating degrees.

Not the original commenter, but yes. It seems weirdly minor at least as far as anything that could be described as "existential dread" is concerned.

Might it just be that your aesthetic preference is different? Ie. you're judging the outcome by your own aesthetics rather than by the badness with which parent would perceive the outcome in this case?

Or perhaps the inverse, as a parent maybe I'm more concerned about my boys finding wives who haven't been mind-killed by secular bullshit and will treat them well than I am about the skin color of my hypothetical grandkids. After all, I'm only here because my own ancestors set out across the ocean in search of new lands to conquer and exotic women to bang. Who am I to judge?

I mean, I don't know if that's the case, but conversely maybe the poster is only there because their ancestors stayed within the same ten mile radius for the past four generations doing roughly the same job handed down the family line. Even if not, certainly people like that exist; are their preferences invalid?