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I certainly hope they are smarter than me. I think it's unlikely they will reject all of my cultural values since many of them are pretty basic like "wear clothes in public" or "eat food off a plate" or whatever. But if they are smart they will probably accept the cultural values that are useful to them and reject the ones that are not, and I hope they do that, yes.
If you can't argue your point without getting personal and belligerent, bow out of the discussion.
And this is why my wife and child have to fight me and each other for their food every morning.
Your statement is disproved by the evident existence of love in all its forms. What an absurd idea.
My wife has no beliefs I consider repulsive. My children, speaking strictly, don't really have beliefs at all, beyond perhaps "I like this food" and "these people make me happy". My parents have no beliefs I consider repulsive. My siblings have some beliefs I think are wrong, but people being wrong is part of the human condition, and certainly not worth repulsion over. one person I know is teaching their child that sometimes lying is okay, and that's probably the closest I'm aware of to a "repulsive" belief. Certainly it's not worth killing over. There are ideas that I think are worth fighting, dying and killing over, so I know such ideas exist. I just don't know anyone who holds them.
Your statements continue to be absurd.
"People use force unless they don't want to" is not a very enlightening or useful statement.
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