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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 4, 2023

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Yeah, I've never heard of Jews getting offended about acknowledging Christmas. It seems like most of them celebrate it, albeit by eating Chinese food.

a minor random Christian holiday near Passover be given equal standing to their most important holiday.

The most important holiday on the Christian calendar is reasonably close to Passover, as in the event it commemorates took place at the same time. If Israel made any pretense for caring about political correctness(which it does not) it would be reasonable to expect a "secular passover season" set of decorations in Tel Aviv or whatever to include some Easter eggs or whatever.

A better metaphor would be demanding Roodmas get equal standing to Yom Kippur in Israel. This is obviously stupid; roodmas is not a particularly major holiday, and it's only celebrated by a small percentage of the population in Israel.

Yeah, I've never heard of Jews getting offended about acknowledging Christmas

I kinda disagree. I, for example, used to date a Jewish girl who kinda hated Christmas and objected to institutions she was in from doing things like putting up Christmas trees. It's not every Jew, but a lot of them do seem to have a stick up their ass about Christmas, as if it were some personal offense to them.

A Jewish American manager just forbade our European office from doing a Secret Santa precisely because Christianity might offend people who don’t celebrate Christmas.

Here in America an acquaintance of mine found himself in charge of his social group's Christmas party this year, and some attending nonobservant Jew insisted it be called a holiday party in the name of inclusiveness.

Maybe this doesn't rise to "being offended," but clearly there are people who have no qualms about using whatever fashionable terminology there is available at the time to issue a veto-by-empathy. For whatever reason, probably just because earnest Christians gross some people out for tribal reasons we talk about every day on here.

That is a much better example.