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Friday Fun Thread for January 26, 2024

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Has anyone else gone through a period in adult life where you realize you've kind of forgotten how to actually have fun?

I'm not talking about just zoning out to a video game, but joyous laugh-out-loud relaxing fun. For me I feel I've gotten so bogged down with job issues, health issues, and planning for the future that even when I carve out 'free time' I never fully relax and just have fun.

Anyone relate? Or have stories on how they got out of such a mode?

Me since age 16, I am 23 now, co-founder of a startup and I am stuck in my room all day. I want to move back to Gurugram where I can occasionally visit nightclubs but even that feels futile, I feel empty when not working and that makes me less likely to work, its a vicious feedback loop. Everything feels empty, I never have enough energy to work and cannot feel happy whenever I am back in my hometown.

Even going to nightclubs is now hard since I recently discovered what STDs are and feel bad. It is a strange phenomenon, I would greatly appreciate if anyone had any advice on how to feel fulfilled when working on a long-term goal or being an adult, is it just meditation or what?

Seconding @ares that exercise is most important. Just going for a walk can help a lot.

It's easy to get stuck in the loop of

  1. I need to work
  2. I don't have the energy to work
  3. I need to engage in an energy-building activity like exercise or seeing friends
  4. I don't deserve to spend time on that because I need to work
  5. I still don't have energy to work
  6. I'll do a mindless energy-draining activity like videogames instead
  7. Repeat

Very important to recognize and break that loop. If you're not working enough then you have time to not work for another 2 hours and do something actually refreshing.

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