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PaperclipPerfector  3mo ago (text post)   2831 thread views

Friday Fun Thread for January 26, 2024

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Has anyone else gone through a period in adult life where you realize you've kind of forgotten how to actually have fun?

I'm not talking about just zoning out to a video game, but joyous laugh-out-loud relaxing fun. For me I feel I've gotten so bogged down with job issues, health issues, and planning for the future that even when I carve out 'free time' I never fully relax and just have fun.

Anyone relate? Or have stories on how they got out of such a mode?

I would think of times when you remember having fun and try to recreate not necessarily the activities but the conditions under which you had the fun.

For example, these were some of my conditions:

  • Being in an all male social group
  • Trying to impress a woman I liked
  • Spontaneity/no pressure to follow a plan
  • Something physically active
  • Open-ended/not time-bound
  • Outdoors
  • Traveling across the U.S. by car
  • Cooperative/non-competitive activity
  • No upcoming commitments

Then, find something that checks as many of those boxes as you can. I think the negative ("freedom from") conditions are perhaps more important than the positive ones, FWIW.

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