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Terrible post. Terrible sentiment. Users get modded all the time for having fun the wrong way. Mods should do the bare minimum of being respectful in accordance with the rules. Though Amadan and friends long gave up on that when the topics of discussion happened to hit their personal sacred cows, it's worth pointing out when they are acting like a cringe reddit mods.
I feel so special to get my very own call-out. Read, reread, and read and read again the reasons explained with ever-so-much-more-patience than you deserved why people grinding their axes get modded. Tell yourself it's "our own personal sacred cows," despite ample visible evidence to the contrary, if that helps you cope, and then go about with your rules-abiding participation.
I read little more than what you write.
Glad to hear it. If you were under the impression that our rules of civility and discourse require anyone (including the mods) to be sympathetic to Nazis, you should have been disabused of that long ago. You are allowed to be a Nazi here. And people (including mods) are allowed to say they don't like Nazis. If you think that makes me a "cringe reddit mod," go try being a Nazi there.
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I don't think your inability to grasp criticism makes you a 'cringe reddit mod'. The ban reason for SecureSignals is what was being referred to:
To contrast with an actual reason that's not snarky and antagonistic: 'Single issue posting'.
Yes, when mods do stuff like this instead of what's right they are acting like 'cringe reddit mods'
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How much of your ego is wrapped up in weird online spaces you have no power over? I recommend you unwrap as much as you can for your own mental health.
Don't do this, it is not polite, and it doesn't help.
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Not that I disagree, but don't you routinely complain about things not terribly different from that?
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