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From NYT (archive): Elon Musk’s Starlink has connected an isolated tribe to the outside world — and divided it from within.
A case study in what happens when you take a “natural” society and introduce the internet. This relates in some interesting ways to an overview of Hunter-Gatherers and Play that I posted a few weeks ago in the FFT:
In a “primitive” or natural society, childrens’ play is an effortless rendition of adult activity. Over their crucial years of cognitive development, children slowly become adults through stress-free exploration and imitation. The playfulness guides them toward skill acquisition, not unlike a fun video game. In the absence of superstimuli, there is no better way to “play”, so boredom promotes the learning behavior effortlessly. This has the inherent benefit of acting as “shaping” (in a psychological sense) because the skill that is learned is never beyond one’s capacity, is imitated through one’s father, and with the older children who act as mentors (“the Son can do nothing of himself, but what he seeth the Father do: for what things soever he doeth, these also doeth the Son likewise”).
Their original arrangement was paradisal. Just from a psychological standpoint. It is the optimal way for a child to learn. When StarLink was introduced, the paradisal order was disrupted — innocent children have consumed Apple in the prelapsarian garden, so to speak. There is no turning back; they will likely look at their loincloths and feel shame at their nakedness. But I do wonder then, what about us developed people? Are we doomed to fall further and further from grace, our children forever destined to the cognitive hazards of superstimuli? Is there no way out, no rope we can grab to lift us back to grace?
While I sometimes entertain goofy social arrangements to solve this problem — could you livestream Dad working on excel spreadsheets at daycare to get kids organically playing at number problems? — there are only three, equally terrifying resolutions to the problem of humans getting less and less adapted to the current environment.
This just reads and learned helplessness to me. As though the only possible solution is some manner of apocalypse, when that just serves as a convenient excuse to abandon all personal agency.
I've lucked into an arrangement that works fantastic. I work from home, and maintain productive hobbies. We don't watch TV as a family except sparingly. My wife and I strive to stay off our phones in front of our daughter, usually opting for reading instead.
Our 4 year old wants to do everything we do, which consist of exercise, woodworking, gardening, cooking, cleaning, yardwork and reading. She's already begging me to teach her how to program, which is obviously a ways off, but the wife is teaching her to read. If we actually make the leap to homeschooling her next year, I expect these trends to continue and strengthen.
It's honestly not that hard. Stay off your damned phone, and don't give them to children. Also, don't be a slob. Have an industrious hobby instead of being a couch potato.
You benefit from an overvalued career that doesn’t require you to walk, shake hands, or do much more than bum around on a laptop all day. Presumably, your wife doesn’t work if you’re considering homeschooling. Your opinion on it being “honestly not that hard” is worth very little to the average person.
And I wouldn’t brag too much about the success of your parenting before your child is a teenager. Homeschooled children usually end up weird and unsociable.
Pretty much every engineering related job that doesn't involve direct supervision of construction or experiments can be done remotely.
Also I doubt he uses a laptop. They're supremely bad ergonomy wise, a screen or two and a keyboard do wonders.
Fake email-and-excel engineering jobs can be done anywhere your imagination takes you.
Pretty much the entirety of the software field doesn't require anything but an internet connection.
Engineers at least some of them might need to go somewhere and talk to the production people and look at what goes on, but with software, there's never really any need.
Yes, I’m aware that software isn’t real engineering.
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