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Culture War Roundup for the week of September 5, 2022

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Is most chronic pain 'in our heads?'

I spent almost a decade dealing with chronic pain of various sorts. I had many diagnosis such as TMJ, Hypermobility, Repetitive strain injury, Carpal tunnel, Tennis elbow, Conversion disorder, etc. What finally ended my pain was close to 5 years of serious meditation, stretching, dance training, and most importantly yoga. Eventually I developed the ability to relax muscles at will even if they were tense from stress.

Right now 20.4 Americans experiences chronic pain(1), with more people in rural populations dealing with chronic pain than in urban populations. Early research shows that this rate has been rising over time. (2) My pet hypothesis is that over time Americans have become more stressed for a variety of factors, which has lead to an increase in chronic pain. This is also most likely linked to a lack of mobility and a sedentary lifestyle.

However, doctors are very wary of telling a patient something is 'in their head'. This isue has probably gotten worse due to the recent backlash against doctors for ignoring someone's personal experience or opinion. I'm afraid that with the current state of our culture this problem will not get better at any time soon.

The most common way to get chronic pain fixed is seems to be to look for non traditional sources of information, typically 'woo' stuff like crystal or energy healing. Unfortunately I have seen a number of chronic pain suffers fall to these types of outlooks, after 'getting in tune with the universe' seemingly healed their pain. In reality I believe that these people simply develop the ability to visualize and relax their muscles.

I think this is a highly neglected problem and something that many people do not realize because chronic pain is often not talked about, and if you do talk about it most of people will either ignore you, give trite and terrible advice, or stop wanting to listen to you. Perhaps most people innately have the ability to relax their muscles, or lose the skill over time for one or another reason.

Has anyone else experienced something similar or observed it among others?

Sources (Cant figure out how to link text from my mobile device)

1 - https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db390.htm#:~:text=Interview%20Survey%2C%202019.-,Summary,65%20and%20over%20(30.8%25).

2 -

https://read.dukeupress.edu/demography/article/58/2/711/168526/Pain-Trends-Among-American-Adults-2002-2018

Edit: fixed spelling/formatting errors.

This is also most likely linked to a lack of mobility and a sedentary lifestyle.

The issue maddeningly confounded by reverse causality and feedback loops. As a running and biking enthusiast, I can say that approximately zero of my many friends that are into endurance sports suffer from chronic pain. Plenty of acute pain, even plenty of injuries that stick around and bug people for a long time, but none of fibromyalgia or long Covid or chronic Lyme style of diseases. All of the people that I know that suffer from the various mystery maladies that cause them suffering with no obvious cause or cure are thoroughly out of shape and have never put any real effort into improving their fitness. I can safely say that the circle of people that intentionally experience cardiovascular suffering from track intervals or hill sprints is completely non-overlapping with people that experience suffering while doing absolutely nothing.

Of course, the obvious retort is that the people with the chronic pain simply can't take up endurance sports, so it's a selective sample. This is pretty obviously at least part of what's going on, which makes it hard to draw any meaningful recommendation from the above other than the usual generic advice that you should avoid being fat and sedentary.

I think about this at least once a week. I think of myself as having average or better pain tolerance in the context of activities. I regularly climb or lift through serious pumps, I'll drag my ass through a marathon I haven't trained for, my hands and arms are covered in scabs and scars from bashing them on something climbing or futilely struggling on a stuck bolt on an old truck. When those things happen I'll barley notice them, I'll bash my elbow into a hold, scream fuck once, and finish the climb even after the blood starts dripping to the ground.

But take me out of an activity, and I'm SUCH a pussy. I'm going to give blood tomorrow, and I know I'm going to wince when they stick the needle in. I've done it every time I could for years, but I still wince when they stick me.

Hell last year I stabbed myself in the leg with a box cutter trying to work on something, barely noticed the pain of actually stabbing myself, calmly bandaged it and drove to urgent care, then had to grit my teeth to get through five stitches. You'd think I was getting civil war surgery if you looked at my face.

Mentality and context is everything for me.