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Wellness Wednesday for July 16, 2025

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My wife is really hoping for twins for the economies of scale. Quadruplets would be a bit much though, I don't think I can come up with 4 precisely equal names.

Obviously FiveHour Jr, FiveHour III, FiveHour IV, and FiveHour V, in birth order. Then you just call them all FiveHour without the suffix, for maximum efficiency when calling your kids.

Romans did something similar. They didn't have many names to begin with, and starting with fifth child just named them by numbers (Quintus etc.) For girls, it was starting with Tertia. No idea why these numbers specifically.

Another way would be to use names Second, Third, Fourth etc. and when they ask "what about the First" tell them "well, he didn't behave..."

Not even OneHour, TwoHour, ThreeHour and FourHour?

This would work great if his name is Jerome and he winds up having all daughters.

I believe in FiveHour's ability to get creative. My wife's grandfather wanted to name his kids after him, and the fact that he had all daughters did not deter him in the slightest. That's how my wife wound up with aunts named Paula and Pauletta.

Jeroma, Jerometta, Jeromina, and Jeromabelle

@FiveHourMarathon We’ve solved your problem for you.

I've seen that naming system in person. It works out poorly when FiveHour IV has multiple run-ins with the law and the other FiveHours get arrested for his warrants because a roadside cop can't be bothered to sort it out.

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