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Culture War Roundup for the week of July 21, 2025

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None of my half-dozen female cousins are whoring themselves out.

With all due respect, they probably won't have many problems keeping you in the dark about if they are indeed doing so after all.

Then it’s not much of a “default career,” is it?

I think you’re defending the motte to Southkraut’s bailey.

Look, it's not much of a bailey. A bailey is a walled area one means to make use of. This is more of a wide open field I took a stroll through on a whim.

Let's see the original claim:

They dress skimpily, date industriously, engage in serial monogamy, and are not at all averse to material benefits resulting from these activities.

For the sake of argument, would you realistically know about it if any of your female cousins did engage in such things?

Isn't "you can't know that it's not happening" more of an anti-argument; a discussion-stopper?

Again, I'm asking you to consider the social reality of living in modernity. If a woman engages in activities that she wants to keep private from men in her social circle who aren't their husband or long-term boyfriend, she can do so with little effort because the women in her social circle who do know about it, she can generally count on to assist her in this.

Okay, but what do we do with that? Where do we go from here? Shrug and move on to other topics?

You move on but keep it in mind.

Are we Russel's Teapotting whoring now?

It’s just the reality of living in modernity. Let’s suppose you’re a Midwestern middle-class or precariat normie and you have female cousins. One of them lives in a different town and you’re on good terms; she’s known as an average decent young woman. However, in reality she has engaged in sugarbabying and escorting on multiple occasions while in community college. She’s also a serial monogamist / is in an open relationship with some cuck and has one-night stands. Maybe she’s also camwhoring from time to time. You don’t know about any of this because she’s discrete about it and your social circles are overlapping only partially. You’re ignorant about these activities as a whole because you’re a normie. The only way you’re realistically ever going to learn about her antics is if someone tells you about it. But who would? Your other female cousins or your mother definitely won’t reveal it to you even if they know about it. Her long-term cuck boyfriend if she has one isn’t going to talk about it to you either. What gives?

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