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Culture War Roundup for the week of January 30, 2023

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From what I recall from the stories it was an almost childish form of 'seeking permission'. Basically he seemed to spring it fast and then, if no one immediately and vociferously objected, he...um, quickly followed through.

The image that comes to mind is an overeager kid going "umcanIkissyou" and then "but you didn't say no!".

My opinion is that it's the sort of defense ("but he asked!") that only seems acceptable when all norms except consent have been so eroded (by the sexual revolution and the same tribe now pushing #MeToo) that only the barest, hyper-literal contractionism counts.

At this point liberal feminism has so thoroughly corrupted shaped mores that it's fighting its own twisted children.

At this point liberal feminism has so thoroughly corrupted shaped mores that it's fighting its own twisted children.

Hmm, I guess I'd feel better about that if they ever took responsibility for what they've done, and actually blamed feminism, past or present, for any bad thing that happens, as opposed to just saying "it's patriarchy". Like Scott so eloquently put in his least favorite post for people to link to:

If patriarchy means everything in the world, then yes, it is the fault of patriarchy. But it’s the kind of patriarchy that feminism as a movement is working day in and day out to reinforce.

At this point liberal feminism has so thoroughly corrupted shaped mores that it's fighting its own twisted children.

You could almost say that they have chosen the form of their destructor.

Or that they called up that which they could not put down.

Louis would definitely cross the streams

except consent

That doesn't matter either; the meta-rule is just "woman good, man bad".

An inherently sexist movement was always going to end badly, just as the racist ones do; this is why the only stable equilibrium (and what feminism originally started with) over time has been "people who can do the work good, people who can't do the work bad".

After all, the latter category already has levers they can pull to get their way; no need to give them any more than that.