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I see my current views as the bad guy. Maybe I’m wrong but i assume most of ICE knows they are the bad guy. How else can you deport a 5 year old kid. We are the bad guy.
The 5 year olds parents are the villain of that story. No different than if some parents of a 5 year old committed a burglary and were sent to prison.
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Pretty easily, apparently.
By which standard/from whose perspective? If the people [who wanted to abuse the fact that cleaning up their mess can be made to look like murderism] actually cared about the well-being of 5 year olds (beyond their usefulness in this matter) actually cared, they would have done something else. But they are not, so telling me I'm the bad guy for not caring is an isolated demand for rigor. Same with the USAID stuff.
Everyone's always the bad guy, everything anyone ever does eventually results in some dead 5 year old. Something can be terrible while still being the correct thing to do; hence the inherent tension in anyone who thinks with both heart and brain.
We are the bad guy. I’ve accepted it. Deporting a 6 year old Ecuadorian and his family is a bad thing to do.
I’ve looked at the math. It’s smart to do. But make no mistake we are the bad guy.
If you genuinely think your preferred policies are bad, maybe you should start supporting policies you think are good, rather than spouting off like a melodramatic teenage Goth or Robert Oppenheimer.
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Why would you want to take a 5 year old kid away from his family? What kind of monster wouldn't deport him? What else would you do? Stick him in a residential school and brainwash him with whiteness and then kill him and bury his body under the playground?
Actual villain behavior, right?
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