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Culture War Roundup for the week of February 16, 2026

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Picture of the latest shooter (EDIT: Updated link)

And no, it's not the Canadian one.

A supposedly trans shooter opened fire at a high school hockey game yesterday. Three dead, including the perp.

The shooter's daughter reported her father's identity to the Pawtucket Police Department, claiming he suffered from mental health issues. Goncalves later said the shooter, born in 1969, was born Robert Dorgan, but also used the name Roberta and the surname Esposito.

NYPost says that his transition and narc personality was a major point of contention with his family and ended his marriage. Among the killed is the mother of his hockey player son (unknown if it's the same ex).

Apparently he was also a neo-Nazi who espoused anti-trans views himself.

The picture has already been taken down. Really, you should know better than to use reddit as a host for this sort of thing.

Xitter account of the perpetrator here unlike previous cases it is still standing (so far). Oversight or deliberate change of Xitter policy?

Is that a... Trans Groyper?

You sound surprised.

I still don't really get what a groyper is other than a Fuentes fan. And Fuentes is a Mexican who hates Jewish people and women but claims he is not gay despite finding women disgusting. And people think he's funny because he says stupid gross things confidently and without shame. Like a low-production-value Nazi Colbert Report.

Are many of his fans trans?

I don't know about Fuentes in particular, but trans-identified males with far-right opinions are more common than you might think.

I think it feels like an over representation because they have a higher propensity for being terminally online.