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He was doing part time working for a tutoring company not actually formally teaching perse. Guy just looks moderately functioning autistic, probably nerdsniped himself with his video game idea and a bit too spectrumatic to hold a regular job. Massive downgrade between masters and undergrad probably related to that/wanting to do a masters in video game development.
In another life he'd have been here on the Motte with his people
Plenty of people (or journalists, anyway) are often happy to point the finger of blame at people like the commentariat of the Motte; I see no need to help them.
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What does 'nerdsnipe oneself' mean?
Relevant XKCD.
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Find a project of massive personal significance and autistically fixate on it whilst allowing other matters to rot
So is 'nerdsnipe' when it fails? Because lots of successful people also fixate extremely on their startup or skills for years, work/life balance etc be damned. No one blames them for it when it works out.
Success has many fathers, failure is a nerdsnipe.
Plenty of success stories could still be considered a nerdsnipe in terms of personal tradeoffs.
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Yes that is how survivorship bias works. If you turn it into something cool you're the misunderstood genius, if it goes nowhere then you've thrown your life away.
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